My First Real Crush

I dont know why we have not spun around this topic yet. It really stuns me.. After all we are bright energetic young future of india. When then, if not now.. hmm :) So let me be the icebreaker. should it always be about ppl around us, why not within us this time. Antha oru desperation la thaan this effort. So each of u take a trip down memory lane and reveal ur angels-flying story of ur first crush..

I dont have to go big about this, as all of u mates wud ve crossed / crossing this stage in life where u have the butterflies, the angels and the non-stop fluttering of birds around u... It is a very special feeling and pretty natural though, as each of us are bound to the atrraction towards the opposite sex. And wats so special about it is not all the cliches we hear ("you feel like u 2 are the only ones in this planet..bla bla").. But truely, frankly and bluntly this infatuation that ur heart ponders on, is a new chemical reaction within. The catalyst is the gal / guy and the end reaction is u maturing out of it. But in between this, the mind is blown high up the sky and u really get to invent the real u. And the funny thing about first crushes is that, 99% of them end up being either undeclared or unreciprocated...

But the interesting part is not all that. There are several phases to this.. First phase being, having the guts to get to interact with the alleged culprit.. This is the biggest step according to me.. When u cross this it's like u re on the cruise nd u ve all the voyage to ur disposal. Most often than not, all guys fail at this stage of the scene itself. The 2nd phase is to become a good observer and a very good articulator.. And this is where u get to establish ur flag on the foreign land.. When u become great buddies with him / her, its like u ve almost made a homerun. U have a lot of fun and frolic at this point where u know u re at a safe place on the cliff... But the twist comes here... There is a thin line of difference between being a hero and being the hero's friend. The hero is a person who induces as much as the same attraction and attention he encounters from his / her crush. And the hero's friend is good, sweet and caring but not as mind-blowing as the hero. So 9/10 ships tat cross this stage will tend to self-destruct at the bottleneck.

Ppl wld have difficulties in figuring out if this gal / guy is of their nature.. but it would become pretty evident at stage 3, whether or not you would score and if the crush is into u .. In such cases going for that No-Ball Sixer expectation is imprudent.. unless and otherwise u re Cupid - Roman god of love and beauty.